Hi everyone, Yuri Elkaim back with you, with another great inner mindset boob tube and there I have mentioned we are talking about self esteem. As an example I will use my little dog here . This is little rascal, likes to get into bother. And I am going to bring over here for little demo, so Lila is a little monkey; I love her because she has got such amazing somebodyality. Jack was behind me against sleeping somewhere over there, he was truly black, relaxed, chill there. Lila on other hand is very serious scorch. Now these two has to approach discipline darling, you can physically beat them and correct them all the time and that one is sure finer way to absolutely kill the self esteem.
The game way could be to; you know, correct them and reinforce them when they do some correct thing . Positive feedback should be given to them when they perform some good behavior, it helps to increase their energy level . Pad on their head or something to seduce increasing energy . And in that way, that behavior is repeated and you have to build that Confidence and that self esteem to being little bit more a helping dog if you want to call them back. The recent use of examples, it was dogs or talk able dogs, so it must be trained dog, or in-correcting dogs. You know, we really don’t think about ourselves, the human beings in the same way and I think we should. Because when you think about when you were young and you did something bad, what your parents do, they may have teached you, they may have corrected you in some way shaped you from. And depending on the person you were, the nestling you were, it may be triplet, or source of formats, just like Fitter U fitness.
Lets see some couple of examples, I don’t like the word “No”, I really don’t like the word no, it’s sad that I hear it so practically. You know you are playing around, and your mother is freaking out there, no no no, don’t do this, don’t do that, don’t clap here, don’t do this, no no no no, it’s no, it’s no, it’s no, it’s no. how is the child guess to learn about life, learn about himself, if he is not able to take risk, if he not able to, may be he can get hurt, may be he can fall and bleeds himself and cut himself hopefully nothing serious, but how a child is going to learn if he is not able to take risk. If you causing being held back and kept him pushed down by folding, telling us, you can’t do something, you will get hurt or something that will put fear pack. It is going to very tough to build up that self esteem and confidence . And for future, we will not have the ability to take more risk in our life because we fear and think for precautions and we being erudite to not to living away the washroom or living on the edge of life, like jumping out from roofs or bungee jumping and even little risk.
There are so many different areas in our life with so many different shapes in it . Having no self esteem or having very little self esteem in your life will create a great set back into your life with your hands down . You can get thousands of examples, people not expiration to the fullest at all for any(a) reason. The majority of the time it is because they have low self esteem about whom they are, how they feel about themselves and again that comes back to their believe system, whether they are not worthy, they feel they are not grinned up, they feel that no one is going to love them and all sorts of things. So you must have grown up in place where the self esteem wasn’t that great and they have to work to build it up back. And we are talking about, some of the things are separating about, I am not talking about people who have not got the financial success, needs, I am talking about the people who have achieved the goals that are set for them self. So you might get one of those successes, you may have set a goal and achieved it and that can be success. So what is a success for you, you define it.
But in lot of cases, people are setting their goal and not achieving them and that is not really self esteem. So, looking at, what are the things that are retaining people back, why there is such a gap and how come you bridge that gap and self esteem is one of really very very big things.